An Introvert

 This is a special category of animal found in this world. They born normal as every human child gets but they adore the criteria and became used to this. 

Being an Introvert is not human nature, this is the zone where some people get their comforts.

If you will meet this kind of people and judge them with your first interaction reviews, You may find them Arrogant or something like that.

As I always say, Everything you are used to may cause harm to yourself. You are used to means You are habituated and can't get rid of this or don't find a better option for that. 

You are used to means You are addicted. No addiction is beneficial.

Being an Introvert means suffering from a Phobia. You will always look for an excuse to avoid felicitations. You can't enjoy the crowd, you can't enjoy your winnings/Losses, You will be afraid of Interactions, etc. 

All the time, You skip participating and making yourself abide and showing others that you are something different may make them feel the same but that kills you inside. It makes you feel like a loser.

How I get into this zone?

Hey, Everyone, I am Nihar. I am going to explain my real-life experiences here. 

If you know me personally, You may relate it. If you are virtually connected/ Viewing or reading my blog for the first time, You have to believe it. Digest 🙏.

Just to identify this syndrome, We have to jump to that age when I was normal.

As much I can remember I was very talkative and clever in my childhood days. Yes, clever means I was a good student. No matter how few students were there but I always came first😃. 

As time flows mind blows, With the start of puberty, changes noticed in me. Many of my friends became muscular, massive change in their heights, and Voice pitch took place.

Forgot to add; Change in body structure, face tone, body and face hair, Brilliancy, etc noticed in all my colleagues. It was within a very small span of time, We could not even understand why and how these are happening but it was a great feeling of all the time in human life that nature has given to us.

Teachers and some parents were aware of all these. Might be they were afraid of something. Instead of Jigging, they played the role of a fixture. 

As they grew up with their traditional old age thoughts, they just made us follow that. 

Like;

The measure of good student/Child is observed from their behaviour.

Maybe, This doesn't mean to be silent. It is focused on the humble and obeying nature of the student.

In the process of becoming a good student/ Child at others, I couldn't even notice when I became an introvert.

It is always started with ignoring your actual kicks. Initially, it looks and feels good as it is adorable and addressed by your family members, relatives, and teachers. 

They adore it because they don't want their son/daughter to have a friendship with an opposite-sex colleague. The main disease to kill your interpersonal skill develops at this stage.

Later on, it spread like a cancer cell. Body shaming becomes an add-on to boost it. 

The less you interact, The less you will learn. The less you learn, The less you will grow.

Since you minimize your scope of learning, You will lag behind. In the meantime, others will overcome you easily. 

Since you acquire comparatively less knowledge, You will avoid debating.

The whole process kills your interpersonal skills and makes you paralyzed.  

 No family members, relatives, Teachers will understand you and your lacuna. 

Aftermath, You will be nowhere in this competitive world. To get a job, make good relationships, Managing situations will be tough for you.

In total, Your Social, Professional, and personal life is going towards destruction, If you are following others without knowing the result.

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